About Us

Stefanos & Shay (StefanosandShay.com) are a vivacious, unconventional D/s couple whose DOWF16 00009entertaining, information-packed classes have been called “better than a Vegas act.” They identify as pansexual polyamorous playsluts, purveyors of perversion, and alliteration fetishists!

Shay is a medical professional by day, education director for Dark Odyssey: Surrender and the SF Citadel by night, while Stefanos is all kink all the time as the Producer/Steward of The Upper Floor on Kink.com and DM & CEO of Bondage-a-Go-Go. Together they created & wrote the bondage education website remedialropes.com. They are based in San Francisco, where they host over 100 events a year (including BENT, Twisted Windows, Master’s Den, the Upper Floor, & Bondage-a-Go-Go) and were named King & Queen of Pervert’s Prom in 2006!

Stefanos & Shay have performed, presented, and hosted around the country and internationally, including at Dark Odyssey (Winter Fire, Surrender, & Fusion), Rome BDSM Conference, Thunder in the Mountains, KinkFest, RopeCraft, Northwest Leather Celebration, Westcoast Bound, San Francisco State University, Stanford University, OpenSF, Kinky Kollege, Beyond Leather, the SF Citadel, Mission Control, Center for Sex and Culture, the Exotic Erotic Ball, International Ms Leather, BayCon, COPE, Mischief in May, Folsom Fringe, and Cum & Glitter. They’ve also been featured on KinkAcademy.com, PassionateU.com, BehindKink, Discovery Channel’s Oddities, Skin Two, KinkUniversity, and in over half a dozen documentaries across the world.

DOWF16 02632For more from Stefanos & Shay, check out their bondage safety web site.

Shay also created a self-suspension web site!

You can watch a video of one of our performances here!

Stefanos was interviewed by Vice regarding Bondage-a-Go-Go and the SF kink scene — watch the interview here!

Interested in booking Stefanos & Shay to present or perform at your event? Contact us!