Events

Stefanos & Shay perform, present, and host events frequently in the SF Bay area and beyond. Venues and organizations they have presented and performed for include SF Citadel, Dark Odyssey (Fusion, Winter Fire, and Surrender), Mission Control, Northwest Leather Celebration, KinkAcademy.com, Society of Janus, Thunder in the Mountains, Vancouver’s Westcoast Bound, Kink.com, Behind Closed Doors, the Exotic Erotic Ball, OpenSF, PassionateU.com, Discovery Channel’s Oddities, SF Swinger’s Convention, Leather Alliance, Minnesota Bondage, Good Vibrations, Folsom Street Events, Playboy TV, Wicked Grounds, and in a number of documentaries across the world.

Stefanos & Shay are the producers of the bondage performance event Twisted Windows, which brings sophisticated adult themed performance art to the Bay Area.


Code of Conduct at events hosted by Stefanos & Shay

Statement of Principle Stefanos & Shay are committed to providing fun, creative, and sexy environments that are free from harassment, abusive behavior, and consent violations. We are dedicated to furthering freedom of expression in tandem...

Consent policy at events hosted by Stefanos & Shay

We look forward to seeing you at one of our events! We want to be as transparent as possible with regards to our hosting policies and beliefs- hopefully this page will help you decide whether our events are a fit for you. Consent Culture Violations...

BENT: A dungeon event for kinky youth

BENT is a vibrant and vivacious youth event held every other month at the SF Citadel . This event has a loyal following among young San Franciscans and attracts many unique attendees who find the energy and lusty appeal of BENT sets it apart ...

Age policy and consent culture at BENT

BENT is San Francisco's largest regularly held kink event, routinely drawing well over 300 of the city's hottest perverts. We also welcome a fair number of "newcomers" and are happy to be a "gateway" into kink for many. We offer these guidelines...
Master’s Den

Master’s Den

I would like to thank you for your years of patronage and loyalty to all of our events and Master's Den in all of its vicissitudes. Your continued support makes our events all the better for the SF Citadel, Maestro Stefanos, Shay and their volunteers,...

Information about Master's Den

How does Master's Den stay safe? Den Mothers : A group of female Volunteers who provide guidance to the party attendees. They provide emotional support, matchmaking, and help Maestro Stefanos and Shay run a safe party. They are identified...

The Master's Den Postures

These are used to create a commonality for all attendees at Master's Den. They are not here to replace or usurp your lifestyle or your personal protocols. They are for our pleasure as a community at Master's Den. Generally at Revelry events ...

Den Dollars

  How to use your Den Dollars? First, Den Dollars are earned through your contribution to Master's Den. Second, they are never lost or taken from you and always roll over to the next event. Third, Den Dollars are meant as a commodity...

Master's Den Queen Cards

Use the Queen Cards: They are tags and clues picked by the Submissives at Master's Den that help start negotiation. A submissive choses a card or cards to wear. The Queen of Clubs indicate you have a S/M or Bondage service to offer....

Master's Den: Auction FAQ

  Why should/would I want to enter the auction? The auction is first and foremost an icebreaker. It's a tool to allow you to communicate your needs and connect with a Dominant/top who wants the same things you want. Who knows- you might ...

Quotes about Master's Den

"Master's Den is highly original, and a remarkable event. Sure, there are events for Doms and subs elsewhere where people can meet, but they all lack the structure and organization of Master's Den. There’s nothing like it elsewhere, as far a...

Guidelines for Self-Suspension Open Space

Have questions or concerns? Speak to Shay! Do not touch another person or their property (including their rope) without their explicit consent. Stay within the parameters of what has been specifically negotiated. If you...

Open Space 4 Principles & 1 Law (by Harrison Owen)

Open Space 4 Principals By Harrison Owen 1) Whoever comes is the right people Those present are the only ones there. Whatever gets done will be done by them, or not at all. So in some strange way, the group present is always the right...
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