Private Instruction

In addition to our many classes throughout the bay area and at events across the world, we are available for private instruction and consulting.

Topics can include bondage (from beginner to advanced/suspension), D/s, bedroom kink, protocol training, medical play, impact play, self-suspension, and much more – take a look at our extensive class list for some ideas of the scope of our offerings and expertise. We are also available for “pick your brain” sessions — see below for more details! Private instruction is tailored to the individual’s specific areas of interest, with lots of opportunities to go “off script” and explore many topics (or dive deep into a special inquiry).

We can meet in person in the Bay Area (most frequently this can be arranged at the SF Citadel or another local venue, or possibly at your residence, by special arrangement) or over video call.

Basic costs are as follows:

  • Private instruction with Stefanos OR Shay: $80 for 1 hour, $140 for 2 hours, $60 for each hour over 2 hours
  • Private instruction with Stefanos AND Shay: $120 for 1 hour, $200 for 2 hours, $80 for each hour over 2 hours
  • A 2-hour minimum applies anytime we are traveling for an in-person session. Single hour rates apply for video call sessions.
  • We will provide a single 10-minute phone consultation, or limited e-mail discussion, before booking. If booking and pre-session discussion requires more time, we will arrange a video call and our hourly rate will apply.
  • Looking to “pick our brains” about being a sex/BDSM educator, event production, class design, or any other topic? We are happy to arrange a skype call at a special rate of $50 for 45 minutes. If you would like to meet in person within 10 miles of our location (we are based in the Bay Area but travel frequently and may be available while “on the road”), our rate is $100 for a 1.5 hour meeting with either Stefanos or Shay. This applies to situations where you want to use our experience and expertise as a resource and differs from BDSM/kink skill-based private instruction. If you have questions about the type of session that’s appropriate for you, please don’t hesitate to send us a message to inquire!

We may also be available for certain types of Pro-Dom sessions (rates are different for this). Contact us for details –